actually, i am very much intrigued with xishi, one of china’s 4 baauties.she was ordered by her king to make the enemy king fall for her which he did. they were married for many years, during these times, hadn’t she learned to love him?. it wouldnt be too hard specially if the king-husband treated you very well and loved you devotedly.thid question had been in my mind. if i i had a time machine, i would go back during the warring states kingdom and ask her that question? ” did you ever love your husband?” “did you feel guilty you betrayed your husband in exchange for your love of your own county?”(china was not united yet and each kingdom has its own king)